Often when we argue with someone, we are very worried about losing the argument. The argument starts because your understanding of something is not parallel to the understanding of the other person. Somewhere down the line you understand the point made by the other person, but you still continue to argue, and in the process even make up facts. Why can you not acknowledge a good point when you see one ? I think its your ego getting in the way. But then backing off straight away without trying to argue is also not good. Arguments let you explore the problem more. Its a fine balance like the rest of the phenomena in this delicately balanced world.
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